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Forward Day By Day SATURDAY, July 3
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SATURDAY, July 3

Matthew 22:23-40. You shall love your neighbor as yourself.

This second of the great commandments presented by Jesus assumes that we love ourselves--and it does not challenge that love. Loving someone else is a virtual impossibility without a healthy love of ourselves.

On the face of it, the idea seems presumptuous. What right have we to love ourselves? Especially on days when things go wrong, when our failures far outnumber our successes, our mistakes obliterate our achievements, we wonder what there can be about us that could be lovable. Yet God accepts us and loves us. What right have we to consider ourselves better judges of humanity than God?

"Self-acquaintance is a rare condition," Robert Henri said. And even more rare, perhaps, is self-acceptance. If we try to see ourselves as we really are, we may find that some of our most endearing qualities are our faults. We must not hate ourselves because of our faults; we must love ourselves in spite of them, and with the kind of love God has for us: not an admiring approval, but a merciful willingness to accept and live with imperfection and failure. (1962)

PRAY for the Diocese of East Tennessee (Province IV, USA)

Ps 137:1-6(7-9), 144 * 104; Numbers 24:12-25; Romans 8:18-25

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Selfish Love

Jul 03, 2010 at 6:34 am

Written by Wayne,

Love is the greatest power in transforming people, including ourselves.
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Jul 03, 2010 at 9:03 am

Written by Paulletta Aldridge,

If we can learn to love ourselves, then we can begin to understand God's perception of what is good and right in us. Using those qualities, then we can see the good and right in others. This is how God's love manifest itself in us and can be realized by those around us. Everyone is worthy of love and when we realize that the world will be a better place.
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Jul 03, 2010 at 10:31 am

Written by Lois,

Absolutely correct. Most of us don't like ourselves and we portray it onto others. I wake up with a positive attitude. Now I have to say Lord here I am . Thank you for making me. I love me therefore I love others. Something to work on.....
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Jul 03, 2010 at 12:40 pm

Written by Pamela,

Implicit in the word "love" is also "respect." There is always the danger of pride that can corrupt self-love and self-respect. Jesus instructs us to love ourselves but to be mindful of pride or conceit, which is contrary to God's love. Therein, I think, lies the challenge.
Being real

Jul 03, 2010 at 1:06 pm

Written by Gaye Anne McWade,

I'm learning ". . . a merciful willingness to accept and live with imperfection and failure." Gratitude becomes spontaneous too.

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