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Forward Day By Day THURSDAY, October 14 (Samuel Isaac Joseph Schereschewsky)
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THURSDAY, October 14 (Samuel Isaac Joseph Schereschewsky)

Luke 9:18-27. If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.

What does it mean to deny one’s self?

Picture yourself entering a gathering of people. Family, friends, or strangers—it doesn’t matter. You can enter filled with self or empty of self.

If you’re filled with self, you think every eye is on you as you enter. You seek like-minded people. You turn conversations to your own interests. You try to impress. You’re “on.” You’re selling. You avoid disclosing any “negative” emotions like fear or anger. Is it working? You can tell by how you feel. Sound familiar?

If you’re empty of self, you see the needs of other people. You’re available to whoever comes near. You draw out other people. They feel larger in your presence. You affirm. You share. Is it working? You look for clues in the other person’s eyes.

The self-emptying scenario sounds better, doesn’t it? Why, then, don’t we live this way? It’s risky. It’s often painful. But more than that, it requires intentionality. That’s what strikes me about Jesus’ own self-emptying. He planned it out in advance. He worked at it. We, too, need to be intentional about our lives, our faith and our self-denial. (1989)

PRAY for the Diocese of Ikwo (Province of Niger, Nigeria)

Ps 18:1-20 * 18:21-50; Jonah 3:1—4:11; Acts 27:27-44

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Today's ACTS of love

Oct 14, 2010 at 11:48 am

Written by Gaye Anne McWade,

I too believe that this is Jesus' promise to us of daily opportunities to participate in His divine burden-bearing for others.
Very helpful

Oct 14, 2010 at 12:05 pm

Written by H. Lee,

The commentary on this post was quite helpful, because it gave a concrete example of self-denial. It is sometimes easy for me to assume that "self-denial" means "If it feels good, stop it. If it feels bad, do it."
Rethink my behavior

Oct 14, 2010 at 3:42 pm

Written by Howard,

I am selfish. I try to think of others when in the presence of others. Paying attention to the present moment is important to me. I think a smile is a first step for me to attend to others. I never know who needs a smile.
...

Oct 14, 2010 at 4:53 pm

Written by Tom Pritchard,

We are each, some would say, the centers of our own universes. If I am in a group of strangers I tend towards introversion and endeavor to gauge the temperament of the group and then wait to see if, where, and how I might fit in. In a group of friends I am less bashful. I think this is fairly basic human nature.

I think Jesus, as portrayed in the Gospels, also assessed the temperament of the groups he encountered and sometimes challenged. In most instances he was forgiving and empathetic, in others he was judgmental and quick to anger (upturning the vendor's carts at the Temple).

The concept of becoming a doormat for other people's baggage and negativity can be a pretty dangerous place to spend any appreciable time. Burnout among those who work with the terminally ill, the elderly and infirm, and the traumatized is relatively high. Some thrive in states of persistent or continual tension but not most. Our psyches do not usually tolerate too much of this without paying a mental and/or physical price.

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